Why do most of us not learn from other people's mistakes and bad decisions as we seem to want to do them personally ourselves whenever we can just learn from other people's mistakes so we don't make those mistakes but I guess on a more personalized manner personally making a mistake seems to give you a divine teaching of whatever lesson you were supposed to be learning which you are then able to apply not only to your life but other people's lives as well So I suppose it is necessary for growth but if we were smart we would bypass the initial fuck up and just skip to the lesson that has already been learned by somebody else. π€999π€