April 18

Why Healing Trauma Makes Us Better Parents 👨‍👩‍👧‍👧

Breaking generational trauma starts with our own healing—acknowledging past wounds, understanding their impact, and actively working to unlearn harmful patterns.

Studies show that adults who have recognized the effect of trauma in their own lives are calmer and more mindful in the face of children’s challenging behaviors. Instead of: “Why is my child behaving this way?” we’re able to stay present, grounded, and ask ourselves, “Why am I feeling so overwhelmed or triggered by this?”

There is a creative exercise that will help you not only find clues about your childhood and lifelong wounds and how they’ve affected you, but also understand how they’ve helped you grow in unexpected ways (like a 🌳) and how you can continue that growth now.

Interest in learning more? Continue reading here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-last-best-cure/202504/healing-trauma-makes-us-better-parents

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