I don't know what happened, I'd type words, but no words would go down, so I'll tell you the rest here.
She & I just could not communicate. It was awful. I sought understanding and all she sought was to be right and not change a thing. For me, if I'm wrong I want to know it, not not know it, otherwise how can anything ever improve, right? To me it's all about expanding myself, not staying put because its what I'm used to. I can also get used to better and that's what understanding does. Then in hit me like a ton of bricks, "we do not exist in the same dimension". Essentially, her thinking in 2nd dimension-> black/white; here or over there; lets put the box up top or on the floor. You know those cloth shoe holders that can be hung from on closet rod that runs down to the floor, she can't stand them, shoes go on the floor, she says. There's 50 more 2-D examples and hell I'm in an out of 5-D now. Understanding is not possible because for me there is so many more ways to do the same thing.
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07 Feb 01:06
Akhi Thanks friend! I just wrote something pretty profound. I didn't realize I was on my wife's account when I wrote the comment. My name is Clifford. I ran out of space and had to finish it in a reply to my comment.