Amen....it's the only force connected to Source (call it whatever you want).  Love is not simple but it's multi-faceted and layered deeply within or souls....

Georgie-Ann Evans loving them just where they are is the best gift we can give them as well as ourselves.  

I see where your coming from. For me, I feel love is the answer. Nothing teaches more than by modeling it. Love is sometimes the hardest choice.