Make it a habit to speak to Hashem – not only when life feels heavy, but also in the quiet moments when everything seems fine. Talk to Him throughout your day, the way you’d stay in touch with someone you love. Share the big fears and the small details, the serious questions and even the thoughts that feel silly or unfinished. Prayer isn’t reserved for emergencies; it’s meant for gratitude, reflection, and connection in the ordinary moments too.
Don’t worry if the words don’t come out right – Hashem understands the heart behind them. You don’t need the right words to pray – even when the words feel tangled or incomplete, your prayer is still heard. Remember, Hashem listens with understanding and compassion, not grammatical scrutiny. Prayer isn’t an exam in eloquence or precision – it’s a relationship. A sentence that comes out broken but honest can be more powerful than a flawless one spoken on autopilot. What matters isn’t how polished your words are, but that your heart is open and present.
Speak to Hashem about your worries and concerns, but don’t stop there. Talk about your hopes, your dreams, the future you’re trying to grow into. Ask for strength when you feel weak, wisdom when you feel unsure, clarity when things get foggy, and comfort when you’re tired. Keeping that line of communication open grounds you, centers your thoughts, and gently reminds you that you’re never alone.
Over time, this steady conversation changes how you carry yourself through the day. With consistent prayer, something shifts inside you before anything shifts around you. You begin to move with a little more trust, a little more calm. You may not always get immediate clarity, but even when answers aren’t obvious, there’s a quiet sense of being held, guided, and seen. Prayer becomes less about outcomes and more about closeness.
So keep showing up, and keep praying. Hashem is always near, always available, and always ready to listen.
Inspired by the teachings of Rebbe Nachman (1772-1810)