Emotions Are Information, Not Instructions
A foundational Chassidic principle is that nothing in existence is random. Every detail of our lives, especially something as powerful as our emotions and reactions, is guided by Hashgachah Pratis, Divine Providence.
This means that if you are experiencing a particular feeling, it is not a mistake or a flaw. There is a Divine purpose behind that emotion, and therefore something we can and should understand and respond to wisely.
Emotions are energy in motion, signals meant to be listened to, not obeyed blindly.
The real question is not “How do I get rid of this feeling?”
It is “What is this emotion trying to tell me?”
Emotions are not random states we are meant to suppress or drown in. They carry both energy and information.
The common mistake is either reacting automatically or trying to silence the feeling altogether.
A healthier approach is to pause and ask
What is this emotion motivating me to do?
Every emotion carries momentum. Fear urges avoidance. Anxiety pushes control. Anger pushes defense. That is the motion.
What is this emotion revealing about my inner world?
What belief, fear, or attachment is being exposed?
What growth or alignment is being requested of me?
Fear is not the enemy. It often points to an area where our Bitachon needs strengthening, a place where we are forgetting Who is actually in control.
Anxiety is not random either. It frequently signals that we are holding onto control in a place where trust belongs, reminding us to deepen our Bitachon and release the illusion that certainty comes from managing outcomes.
Emotions are not commands.
They are messengers.
When emotions are filtered through awareness and Torah values, they become guides that lead us closer to Hashem, not drivers we mindlessly follow.