Benita

Aagtekerke, Netherlands

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Sep 05 at 03:33 PM

A child who grows up unable to trust their biological parents,or people that raise the child as a parent, the very people meant to provide love and protection, faces deep emotional wounds. This early breach of trust teaches the child a worldview rooted in distrust and fear, making it difficult to feel safe or secure in their environment. The betrayal they experience creates a lasting imprint on their heart, always alert to danger or rejection, even when none is present. They learn to expect disappointment, making emotional safety a rare and longed-for experience.

This child often embarks on a lifelong search for someone they can trust, someone who will provide the safety and peace they were denied. Peace, for such a child, becomes the ultimate treasure—the feeling of finally being able to rest in a secure space without the fear of being hurt. It’s the calm after a storm they’ve navigated for so long.

However, in this quest for safety, the child’s vulnerability becomes visible to others. There are those who have an innate ability to sense such fragility people with “antennas” for those who are emotionally wounded. Unfortunately, not all who recognize this vulnerability come with good intentions. Some exploit this delicate state, manipulating the child’s longing for trust and security for their own advantage.This cycle highlights the importance of healing. The child must learn, often through inner work and self-discovery, to trust their own inner voice and intuition. Only by building self-trust and emotional resilience can the child break free from the patterns of being exploited or betrayed. The journey towards peace then shifts from seeking external sources to finding inner strength and safety within themselves, allowing them to stand strong in their own truth without fear of being taken advantage of.🦄🤞

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Sep 05 at 03:16 PM

when someone reveals their true nature, it’s a moment of clarity and understanding. This unveiling, whether intentional or unintentional, gives you a glimpse of their authentic self. Being grateful in this moment is powerful, as it frees you from expectations and illusions you may have held about the person.

Looking at them with a loving heart means offering compassion, even if their behavior or energy doesn’t align with yours. Saying “thanks” internally is a form of acceptance, not just of the person but of the reality that they’ve shown you. You acknowledge that you can’t force someone to be something they are not or expect them to fit your vision.If their energy doesn’t resonate with yours, there’s no need to struggle or try to change it.

What they show you is their truth, and it’s up to you to honor that by accepting it and letting go. This doesn't mean condoning negative behavior, but rather releasing the need to control, judge, or hold on to something that isn't in alignment with your path. Letting go with love creates peace within yourself and allows you to remain centered.🥰🤞Love and Light

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Sep 04 at 03:23 AM

00:59

Sunflowers 🌻 turn their back on the sun

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Sep 04 at 03:17 AM

00:59

Jake couldn't post it at the comments for you. Here is it the artificial sun that China has created

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Sep 03 at 07:12 PM

Walking in your own truth is a profound and deeply personal journey. Your truth is the essence of your experiences, perceptions, and inner wisdom. It’s your unique way of understanding the world and navigating your life process. However, this truth, as personal and powerful as it is, can sometimes create turbulence when it intersects with the truths of others.

Each person carries their own version of truth, shaped by their experiences and perspectives. These truths may not always align, and that's okay. It’s important to remember that truth is both a logical construct and a feeling that resonates deeply within the heart. It’s not just about what makes sense intellectually, but also about what feels right at the core of your being.

Truth is a form of energy an energy that flows within and between us, guiding our actions, decisions, and relationships. It’s not rigid but fluid, allowing room for growth, understanding, and even conflict. When you walk in your truth, you’re allowing this energy to guide you, to move you forward on your path.

But as your truth guides you, it’s also important to recognize that others are being guided by their own truths. These may clash or create friction, but that’s a natural part of the human experience. By holding space for both your truth and the truths of others, you cultivate empathy, understanding, and a deeper connection to the shared journey of life.

Let your truth be your compass, and trust that it will guide you where you need to go, just as it does for others. In this shared journey, there is space for all truths to coexist, to teach, and to enlighten.🤞🥰

Love Benita

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Sep 03 at 06:56 PM

Life, for me, is a profound gift a journey filled with endless opportunities for growth and understanding. I find deep appreciation not only for the people who have loved me and uplifted my spirit but also for those who have caused me pain, whether physically or mentally. While their actions might have hurt at the moment, I now see them as some of my greatest teachers.

These experiences have shown me how not to treat others, teaching me the importance of compassion and kindness. They've deepened my capacity to love, pushing me to cherish the light in others even more. In showing me what I never wanted to become, they’ve guided me toward the person I aspire to be.

This perspective is a gift in itself, one that I am profoundly grateful for. It reminds me that every encounter, whether positive or painful, is a part of the beautiful tapestry of life each thread contributing to the whole. In embracing this truth, I find peace, gratitude, and a deeper connection to the world around me.🥰

Thank you gift for being the gift , you are greatly appreciated 

Love Benita 

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Sep 03 at 05:50 PM

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Assumption confirmed?

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Sep 03 at 05:39 PM

00:59

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Sep 03 at 05:37 PM

🌍🍃

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Sep 03 at 05:36 PM

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