Holiness is not something you add to yourself.
It appears when self-focus quiets
and attention turns toward Hashem.
This happens when a person submits to truth,
places loyalty in truth rather than self,
and aligns with it regardless of cost.
When ego steps aside, wisdom becomes accessible.
Where wisdom is present, holiness follows.
If you feel distant, it does not mean holiness is gone.
It means truth is being resisted.
Closeness returns the moment a person chooses loyalty to truth over comfort
and aligns with what they know is right.