We often spend much of our time searching for “who we are” – trying to define our identity, our purpose, and our place in the world. But the great paradox of life is that sometimes we discover our truest self not by looking inward, but by reaching outward.
The greatest way to bring joy into your life is by bringing joy into someone else's life. True happiness and purpose comes from what we give to others, not what we grasp for ourselves. Sometimes the most effective way to combat feelings of emptiness, sadness, or lack of purpose is to begin by setting small, simple and realistic goals of ways to reach out and help others. It might be calling a friend, helping at home, or doing something kind for someone else. Almost always, our spirits begin to lift. Giving to others becomes the medicine that restores our sense of meaning and connection.
So if you ever feel lost or unsure of your purpose, don't search harder – give deeper. One small act of kindness can become the turning point you’ve been looking for. Volunteer. Listen. Care. Help someone climb their mountain. And in that moment, you may just find the person you were meant to be all along.
When we step beyond ourselves to lift another person, we discover who we truly are and taste the sweetness of true joy. When we lift another soul, we discover our own. In giving, we don't lose – we become whole.
Based on the teachings of Rabbi Yehuda Sputz