You Don’t Need to Have It All Figured Out

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BS’D

There’s a quiet pressure to understand everything.

To know where you’re going.

To feel clear before you move.

But life doesn’t really work like that.

Most people don’t say this out loud… clarity often comes after the step, not before it. Even cognitively, the brain organizes itself through action.

And Torah says it simply: “תמים תהיה עם ה׳ אלוקיך”

Walk forward—even without the full picture.

So this is what we do:​

We take the next small step we can see… and let that be enough for now.

You don’t need certainty to move.

Just a little willingness.

Orit Ester Riter

How Can We Love Others?

Imagine that you relate to others as a loving parent relates to their children, whether strict or kind does not matter, but always with love. This is the attitude we must acquire toward all people.

However, when someone reads this and sincerely sees within themselves that they are incapable of such an attitude, that they simply cannot love others in such a way, this realization is not yet a prayer. It is an examination of oneself. It is a moment of truth, when a person begins to understand how opposite they are from what is required, how much correction they truly need.

From this recognition, a deeper yearning begins to form. We start to develop an inner demand, a request for change. We begin to judge ourselves with greater clarity, and then we can turn to the original force that created and sustains us with a demand: “Correct me, because I cannot correct myself!”

We cannot change our own human egoistic nature, where we prioritize our own desires over others. Only the original force that created us can do so. But it does so only according to our genuine demand, inner request, and persistence. Therefore, we must not delay, but reach such a demand as quickly as possible.

We begin with a simple yet absolute instruction: to love everyone. We want to reach this state, but discover that we cannot. From this gap between the desired state and the actual existing state, a true request is born. “I want this, but I cannot reach it. Help me!”

This is already the beginning of the path to spiritual transformation, of loving others as we naturally love ourselves.

Based on KabTV’s “Conversation with Dr. Michael Laitman” on February 26, 2026.

What Makes Us Change and What Are the Things We Cannot Change about Ourselves?

We need to reach a very sharp and bitter realization that it is impossible to give up self-gratification, to love one’s neighbor, and to truly bestow to another. Human nature, which is an egoistic desire to enjoy for self-benefit at the expense of others and nature, continually holds us back from altruistic tendencies.

When we reach this recognition, it is actually a very good state. It is called the “recognition of evil,” the recognition of our true nature. From here, a new question needs to emerge: How can we rise above this nature? Where is the remedy that can change us?

Humanity, in general, is approaching this same point. On one hand, people are losing hope and see no solution to a upsurge of problems and crises. However, on the other hand, we are beginning to understand that if such a solution does not exist, then there is no happiness, no good future, and nothing to live for.

Accordingly, we encounter a major paradox as we see that we cannot remain as we are, but we also see that we cannot change. There is no way back, and no way forward.

Precisely at this juncture, something new begins.

When we reach such a state, we begin to understand that if nature has placed us in this condition, then nature needs to also provide the solution. The answer is not in other people or in the surrounding world, but in nature itself.

Then we begin to approach nature, or in other words, the single force of nature that has the power to change us. This is already a form of communication. We reach an inner demand for a solution that only the higher force of nature beyond our own egoistic nature can provide us.

However, this demand must become real. It must come from a place where we genuinely feel that we have no other option, that we need only this transformation of our nature and nothing else.

When do we get a response? It is when we reach total despair of our own strength coupled with a need for transformation.

Humanity is being led to this state. It cannot be avoided or bypassed. This point is necessary because it is the place where an inner inversion occurs, a transition into a completely new mode of existence.

If anyone hears this and wishes to accelerate the pace to reach this fateful transition point, then they should seek to strengthen themselves in this direction. To continue turning inward, to continue demanding, to hold on to this understanding that the solution exists within nature, and to persist until the transformation becomes revealed.

Based on KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman” with Kabbalist Dr. Michael Laitman on February 23, 2026.

It’s Not Too Much — You’re Just Carrying It Alone

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BS'D

There’s a kind of tiredness that sleep doesn’t fix.

You’re functioning, showing up, doing what needs to be done… but something feels heavy underneath it all.

That quiet overload we don’t always name.

What’s interesting is that emotionally, the body doesn’t just respond to what we’re doing—it responds to what we feel we’re carrying alone. Studies show that perceived isolation increases stress far more than actual workload.

And in Torah, we’re reminded: “השלך על ה׳ יהבך והוא יכלכלך”

Not that everything disappears— but that you don’t have to hold it by yourself.

So this is what we do:​

We pause for a moment and say—“I’m allowed to share this weight.”

Even that softens something.

Orit Ester Riter

Deep Love

By Tzvi Freeman

You cannot touch the depths of another until you have touched the depths of your own soul.

If you love yourself for your achievements, your current assets, the way you do things and handle the world—and despise yourself for failure in the same—it follows that your relationship with another will also be transient and superficial.

To achieve deep and lasting love of another person, you need to first experience the depth within yourself—an inner core that doesn’t change with time or events.

If it is the true essence, it is an essence shared by the other person as well, and deep love becomes unavoidable.

Tanya, chapter 32.

Have you ever considered that shifting your perspective from scarcity to abundance could be the key to unlocking a more fulfilling life? The universe is inherently abundant, offering endless possibilities and resources. When we view life through a lens of scarcity, we often feel anxious and competitive, fearing there's not enough to go around. However, by embracing an abundance mindset, we recognize that there's plenty for everyone, and each person's success contributes to the collective good.

This shift isn't just about positive thinking; it's about fundamentally changing how we perceive the world and our place in it. By acknowledging the universe's generosity, we open ourselves to new opportunities, deeper connections, and a more profound sense of peace.

Remember, life is not just here today and gone tomorrow; it's here today and more tomorrow. Embrace this truth, and watch as your world expands in ways you never imagined.

When the path feels uncertain and the climb feels endless, remember that sometimes the most difficult roads lead to the most beautiful destinations.

Inspired by the teachings of Rebbe Nachman (1772-1810)