HAVE YOU BEEN MISTREATED? DO YOU KNOW WHY YOU ARE MISTREATED? DO YOU WISH TO CHANGE THE SITUATION FOR BETTER?
You deserve to be seen, heard and understood. Everyone does. And, when you don’t get it, it surely feels bad as if you are rejected, or ignored and it can make you feel like you are no one. This is a serious issue and if it is not dealt with in time, it can branch out to become something else and it can be detrimental to your spirit.
The last thing you want to do is to convince yourself that you don’t need anyone to truly see you, hear you deeply and understand you. If you are in this state, know that it is a result of the hurt and pain where you expected to receive it but you didn’t receive it. It is not okay for you to mask your hurt and pain by convincing yourself that you don’t need it. It creates a deeper separation between you and your spirit, your soul and mind and brings you out of your brain and heart coherence. This state is a result of anger and the anger emotion is a mask of the vulnerability that you missed and ignored to even feel. If you want them to see you, hear you and understand you then why do you ignore yourself and your pain? Keeping a blind eye to your wound will not magically make it go away. Keeping a blind eye will only make it worse.
How worse? First and foremost, a blind eye to your pain will not make you aware of the first-hand, “Why do you need them to see you, hear you and understand you?”. Secondly, convincing yourself that you don’t need it, won’t truly make your desire go away, but it will create a false sense of self as a resistance to what you truly want. Hence, as this sense of self is a resistance, what will persist is people again and again making you feel ignored. And, you will keep on convincing yourself the false sense of self to be true, as you cannot find the courage to see the truth. Thirdly, as time goes by you will push this true feeling and desire deeper in your unconscious and hence completely forget about it. In doing so, your persona becomes based on “don’t care” feelings. This vibration doesn’t come as authentic as deep down you do care but didn’t have enough awareness of how to manage this situation. And, this further leads you to live in separation and limitation. Your way out completely depends on how you cultivate your emotional intelligence.
So, what to do now? Will you run after those who don’t see you, hear you or understand you? No? That is not the solution as it will make you lower your worth. Will you keep on rejecting what is that you truly desire? No, this will keep on making things complicated only for you. Why give your power away when you can have a better understanding of yourself before you act on your desires? Finding clarity is imperative and it is in the middle ground of not rejecting yourself because others don’t see you. And, not caring about your worth and chasing what, do no good to you. What they do is a reflection of them, it is true. But, what you attract is also a reflection of your limiting beliefs.
You deserve to be seen, heard and understood. Accept that it is what you want. And, when you accept it, you will understand that you cannot receive it from certain people who mistreated you, no matter how much shadow work, self-work, you do or even how much you do for them. It is futile. Emotional abuse happens to people and is done by people who lack emotional intelligence. Emotions are meant to be sweet. The sacral chakra in Sanskrit is called “Swadisthana Chakra” and it means place of sweetness. After all, emotions are what makes you human. Without it, you are nothing at least in this place. Stop ignoring and start paying attention. Cultivating your emotional intelligence will also open up and expand your Psychic Abilities and open your heart. This will allow the free flow of chi energy in your system hence allowing you to deeply connect with yourself and the universe.
🖊️Amartya Dasgupta
Love and Light,
Michelle Price
July 23